Chatbar

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i don't see any that are user vs. user IM, there all chat rooms

You're not going to find a script that "magically" integrates itself into your login/register script, it's going to take a bit of work. If you don't even know PHP yet, you're not really going to be able to. Sorry :P

i know, and ive learned alot, and i know not that much to be able to do the login integration thing, but im not planning on adding the IM Bar really till i actually get finished with the site and it will be a long time, i haven't even set it up to let people join yet (i know how to do that :P )